Thursday, November 30, 2006

loVe areNt oNe..


Courtly love in general modern use means an unconsummated relationship, courtly love in medieval Europe was in fact often adulterous. Eroticism is an aesthetic focused on sexual desire, especially the feelings of anticipation of sexual activity. It is not only the state of arousal and anticipation, but also the attempt through whatever means of representation to incite those feelings

Platonic love in its modern popular sense is an affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise. A simple example of platonic relationships is a deep, non-sexual friendship between two heterosexual people of the opposite sexes

Familial love is a type affinity or natural affection felt between members of a group bound by common ancestry or blood ties. The cultural ideal of familial love is one that is committed, unconditional, selfless, emotionally full, and reciprocally returned by the other.

Puppy love is an informal term for feelings of love between young people, especially during adolescence, so-called for its resemblance to the affection that may be felt towards a puppy dog. In general, puppy love refers to an incomplete, immature, or 'false' love compared to 'true' love.

True love is a popularly held concept of loving another lover or potential lover without restraint and without restriction. true love is described as love without condition, motive or attachment, loving someone just because they are themselves, not because of their appearance, actions, or other superficial factors. Such shallow reasons for affection, those that only appear on the surface, are often considered infatuation or puppy love, which are less profound and meaningful than true love.

Romantic love is a form of love that is often regarded as different from mere needs driven by sexual desire, or lust. Romantic love generally involves a mix of emotional and sexual desire, as opposed to Platonic love. There is often, initially, more emphasis on the emotions than on physical pleasure

It is important to note that the exact definition and nature of true love is highly subjective. Throughout history, true love has been debated over by philosophers, writers and scholars such as Shakespeare and Plato. Modern day intellectuals also have widely differing ideas of true love.

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

rOse..

when you want to give a rose to someone special, did you know what each roses means? believe it!

... red - love ...
... pink - grace, gentle feeling of love ...
... dark pink - gratitude ...
... light pink - admiration, sympathy ...
... white - innocence, purity, secrecy, friendship, reverence and humility ...
... yellow - its a symbol of dying love or platonic love - in German, it's jealousy, infidelity ...
... yellow with red tips - friendship, falling in love ...
... orange - passion ...
... burgundy - beauty ...
... blue - mystery ...
... green - calm ...
... black - slavish devotion ( as a true, black rose is impossible to produce) ...
... purple - protection ( paternal/maternal love ) ...

Monday, November 27, 2006

Love like u never hurt



are rejection same with brake up? i am wondering is it the same coz if someone said she and he had broke up, automaticly other people will say her/his love had been rejected. is it? as long as i know, rejection and brake up is a different way of ending relationship. brake up is when the man and the woman cannot tolerate with each other in any way, their end their relationship with their love still alive but rejection is when u didnt want he/she anymore coz u have someone else, u hate he/she or u didnt love him/her, not yet. and rejection is when u broke up with someone when u have another person to replace him/her. thats the only case where brake up and rejection is conected. love in brake up but hatred in rejection. so, anybody have any idea of it? but still, i believe, brake up and rejection is nothing same!

A child's definition of love: Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other. Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redbird. When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you. You can break love, but it won't die

Sunday, November 26, 2006

STUPID!!

who is that guy?! go to hell with his words. i never insulted anybody, nor their family but why he keep insulting me? and my father too?! all the 'H' in my life, i need all of u! i cant stand with this man keep doing this to me. what have i done that make me deserve this?! i never even call anybody stupid but he insulted me like i am a girl with no PRIDE!! Oh Allah, he didnt deserve ur world, ur earth and ur land coz he never learn! i have to stand his insults not only this time but so many times! he is not my responsible, why he kept bugging me? he is not my responsible, not even my dakwah's responsible!
ok, may be the words i had write was my angry. but if that man stand in front of me, i will slap him! he is nothing to say those words towards me and my family! I will never reply that man again, and u will never get my forgiveness, never!!