post mortem

have you ever seen that movie (what movie??) i mean, any movie, that shows the postmortem thingy?
having that in your mind, have you ever think how it will feel if it is done on you (alive, with sensation and everything??)


with that feeling in mind, all I want to say is (as reminder for myself mainly), do take care when you want to give advice, or express your opinion and critics to someone. sometimes, maybe that person need your advice, maybe that person deserve the critics, but always take care of your words. for you maybe your choice of words are perfectly fine, but for the listener....... I don't mean that you have to sugar-coat every word, but try your best to speak words of kindness. empathy, keep that in mind all the time. please.

Abû Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest.” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]

that is all I can say. I really hope I can apply this in my daily life, biiznillah.
wallahu'alam.

*forgive me for my flaws, forgive me for my mistakes*